..... My ex boyfriend of almost a year dumped me three months ago on our nine month anniversary. On the 20th that has just been it was a year since he asked me out :-(He is a cutter and he has Autism so I realise us breaking up was for the best. But I'm still hurt by it. He couldn't even dump me himself. He got his stepmom to text me saying he was leaving me. What the hell. I couldn't believe it... He didn't even give me a reason why and he refused to end it with me himself; he got his stepmom to do it. It was so surprising that he dumped me so suddenly because we had been perfectly fine and nothing had even happened and then next minute I just get a text from his stepmom saying he was leaving me. I thought it was some kind of sick joke at first. Turns out it was true:/
We had been through so much together and he was my best friend and we were together pretty much every spare minute we had...:/
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Ouch, I'm sorry fetacheese, that's a really rough way to have someone break-up with you (a process that's rough by nature anyway).
While it's good to work through your emotions and mourn the loss of the relationship, it's really a good idea to be kind to yourself. I think using a few of the suggestions from this article might help you out:Self-Care a La CartePosts: 943 | Registered: Aug 2013
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