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That Strange CT child
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Just curious, is it a bad idea to masturbate with a friend through texting
One of my friends and i masturbate a lot at the same time and we text each other while we do it, texting about it and sometimes role playing
Its all typed words, no pics or anything r sent, and we both participate equally
Just wanted some input on this
Thanx [Big Grin]

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Hey That Strange CT child! [Smile]

As long as both you and your friend are consenting to doing this activity, then I don't see anything wrong with it. I guess the question that should really be asked is: Do you enjoy and feel comfortable doing this with your friend?

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That Strange CT child
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Yes we both enjoy it and its easier to masturbate when we do together through text

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Another important thing to consider: are you comfortable with the things you text being written down? When something is put down in words, no matter if it is deleted, it can potentially be retrieved and linked to anybody. Is what you text something you're okay with having this potential permanancy and ability to be discovered by a third party?

I also agree with musicnerd that this needs to be something you are both fully consenting to and enjoying. Given that you have said that this is, what brings you here to ask whether or not this is a good idea? What sent off a red flag for you that made you come and ask the question?

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That Strange CT child
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I was just worried that something might be inappropriate or harmful in the future
But if we both consent and participate equally, i dont have to worry about that right? Thats all i wanted to know

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So long as you both consent, and you've talked clearly so you know what is okay and not okay for each of you, there shouldn't be any problem. It's also a good idea to keep checking in with each other periodically to make sure the agreement you have is working for both of you, and to change things if it turns out it's not working.

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Ok will do
Thanx [Smile]

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