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ShortAndSweet
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Here is a scenario:

My ex girlfriend and I broke up. We are in two different places on our lives. I left my ex boyfriend for her about 4 years ago. Now I am talking with him again, and I am kind of thinking we might get back together eventually.

Is that terrible of me?

I also do not want to tell him about her. He is not into that at all and I still really care for him and do not want to lost him. I also dont want to lose my friends for not telling him about my ex girlfriend either because we have the same friends. Eek. Help me please.

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Saffron Raymie
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Sorry you've had a wait on this, ShortAndSweet.

I don't think it's terrible of you, no. Your romantic and sexual life is your business, no one else's. You weren't exclusive with your boyfriend at the time, so it was up to you to date who you wanted to.

Do you think you can explain to your friends that you romantic and sexual life is something personal and ask them to respect your privacy and your own choices around it?

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ShortAndSweet
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That is ok =) THanks for responding anyway!
The reason why I feel bad is because I basically left my ex boyfriend for now my ex girlfriend. THe me and my girldfriend broke up and I am thinking about getting back with him again. Am I terrible for that?

I did tlak to my friends and they said they supposrt me no matter what, which is how friends should be! =)

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ShortAndSweet
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What do you think?
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