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SillyLittleMe
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I meet this guy last year. He was really shy and cute...i was suprised no one liked him. We became best friends and then...started dating. He was my first boyfriend and i had no clue what i was doing. I had problems with him being too shy....like he wouldnt even give me a hug or say hi in person type of shy. So we had a very off again on again relationship. Hes made me sooooo happy. And i dont think i treat him like he should. I think he deserves better. I fell in love with him....he was waiting for me to do so for a year. I love him so much. And one day i stopped talking to him again because i needed space...i cant be tied down easily and he was bugging me.And i talked to him again 5 days latter. Realising my huge mistake. He said it was too late. I tried to convince him other wise and went a little insane...i admitted everything i was feeling...huge mistake i know. I tried making him jealous and bringing back things we used to do that ultimutely
Made him fall for me. He says he doesnt/cant love me anymore. I cant help but think theres still something there...a guy that claims he wants to marry u. Waited a year for u to for him... I dont think that love can just disapear....how do i get him back? Did he just love me for the challenge???? Should i just give up? Should i stop being his friend?

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It sounds like there were a lot of problems and miscommunications going on in this relationship. I'd not jump to the conclusion that he was only playing with you - from what you say, you've done some hurtful things to him (disappearing without a word, trying to make him jealous on purpose), and it's possible that he's just reached the end of his rope.

Overall, I'd say it seems like you two would be better off as friends. I get the impression that you two have very different personalities, and different needs in a relationship, so you may just not be the best match.

Have you two talked about what has happened and where you stand now? What does he want?

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SillyLittleMe
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We r twins. I know that ive screwed up majorly. I know i was a female dog. And yes we have talked. Were best friends. I cant except that were just friends though. Everythought is consumed of him. Everything people say reminds me of him. I miss him more then ive missed anyone. Its driving me insane because what i used to be...is what he is becoming. Weve switched spots and i cant take it. Its sad because ive realized that im used to always having the upper hand. Always being in control. And now that im not....im going crazy. Ive told him how sorry i am. That if i could take it all back i would. That id do anything to have him back. Ive realized that ive become the person i never thought id be....its making me crazy....i just want him back. To call him mine again.
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SillyLittleMe
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Also we dont miscomunicate. We have a extremely open relationship.
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[ 03-19-2012, 07:07 PM: Message edited by: SillyLittleMe ]

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SillyLittleMe
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Blehhhh....
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Saffron Raymie
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Hey SillyLittleMe, sorry your last posts were missed.

How are things going with this now?

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