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Hi. I am posting here because I am a virgin and I think my girlfriend has been pushing me into things I'm not ready for yet. Anyway, I had been been dating this girl for a few weeks and hadn't done anything sexual yet. Then one day I went over to her house and she called me from the kitchen and told me to come in. We started making out, and I noticed she jumped on the counter and told me to eat her out. Before I could say no, she grabbed my face and shoved it into her crotch. When I said this wasn't a good idea, she just squeezed her legs around my ahead and told me to eat her out. I then did as I was told. While I still like her, I feel like we are taking this relationship too fast. What should I tell her?
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Welcome to Scarleteen, billgour!

This is going to hear, but if your girlfriend forced you into performing oral sex on her, we are not talking about "progressing to sex too quickly". We are talking about sexual assault.

Have you two been able to talk at all about what happened? Have you told her how uncomfortable you felt? If so, how did she react? How is your relationship in general? Is she usually pretty good about respecting you and your boundaries, or has something like this happened before?

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Hi, billgour, I've noticed you already have an account with us (gourlegr). We only allow one account per user, can you let us know which one you want to use so we can disable the other one?


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