Okay, well, this is for my friend. She asked me for advice, but I'm going through something similar. She has strong feelings for her best friend (who is a guy). When they met, she thought he was gay because it's what he told everyone. But a couple weeks ago, he told her that he's actually bi, but that he hates to share it with people because he doesn't want to be judged. She has strong feelings for him, but she said she felt conflicted because they have a 5 year age difference, and she's 15. He sometimes puts it out that he likes her too, her and I think because of possible legal issues, that he won't tell her if he does or not. Instead, he says "One day, I'll tell you." What should she do?
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How about your friend comes here and posts herself?
Seriously, this kind of thing is really best as a back-and-forth conversation, and it's tough to answer questions like these without hearing from her how she feels and getting a clearer picture.
So, why doesn't she register and post herself, and then, if you want help with your similar situation, you can tell us your deal and we can talk with you about that?
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