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CuriousxMe
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Hi I'm 17. Currently I am staying in a household with my ex. I actually visited him, hopefully lasting the whole summer, but it looks like I screwed it up.

He is 22. Despite of our age I don't want anyone asking me the question why is a 22 year old with a 17 year old? I just need answers.

I feel horrible. I feel like I've been real wishy-washy with my ex. We have a future of fighting, but we were very serious. Very in many life changing ways.

He no longers want to be with me. I've cried all day. My mouth hurts, my eyes hurts, and my heart most of all is broken. I want to be with him so bad. And he tells me he loves me. But he doesn't want to be with me. He tells me all that and I am lost.

I've begged over and over again. He says no. We've broken up so many time, but this time it is it. What am I do to with myself? How am I to accept this? Am I supposed to or do I keep fighting? He's shown no emotions to my crying. I feel stupid.

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CuriousxMe
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Btw we've been together for 8 long months.
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Djuna
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Hi there! I'm sorry to hear this has happened, it sounds like a really uncomfortable situation in that house.

I don't want to stir up any bad feelings around this breakup for you, but if you want to, we could talk about what it is that's caused the two of you to break up? Also, since I don't really know the situation, do you feel OK with staying in the house in terms of what's healthy and safe for you emotionally?

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“In a strange room, before you are emptied for sleep, what are you. And when you are filled with sleep you never were. I don’t know what I am. I don’t know if I am or not... how often have I lain beneath rain on a strange roof, thinking of home.”

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