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LadyCap
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Well me and my boyfriend have been together for a minute now and we have been having sex ut not regularly only like once or twice a month. My problem is that I can never cum because he always cums before I do.I would like to know is there anything I can do or anything that he can do that will make him last longer?

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Heather
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Actually, most male-partnered women won't reach orgasm from intercourse alone consistently no matter how long their partner has an erection for. So, rather than trying to maintain the erection, your better bet is to talk with your partner about kinds of sex you two can have even after his erection is finished.

OR, you can do things so you do activities where you reach orgasm first, before intercourse.

He can certainly try to last longer -- some men find masturbating before a date/sex helps with that -- but that just may or may not result in orgasm for you.

This may help: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/why_does_he_just_walk_away_when_he_reaches_orgasm_leaving_me_in_the_lurch

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