I guess I'm wondering one of the age old questions: how to get my ex back
he broke up with me saying he didn't think he was mature enough for a girlfriend, and that he just didn't think of me "that way" anymore.
I know it's gonna take time and such, so I'm not going to talk to him for a few weeks, but what do I do after that? how do I initiate the conversation? he doesn't believe exes can be friends, but I told him I wanted to try, and he just said "try your best". so now we're not talking. and I really do care about him. i want to be in a relationship with him again when we've both grown up a little, but i'll settle for being friends as long as he's in my life and he's happy. but I don't know if he'll want either of those. are there any secrets to getting a guy to like you again or try to contact you? I don't know, just need help. I've also been trying to improve my life. reading the Bible, hanging out with friends, working on my goals, etc. which has helped a little, but I still really, really want him in my life. Hahah, enough of my rambling.
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It sounds to me like he needs to sort out a few of his own issues, and also that he maybe honestly doesn't feel that way about you anymore. Stay close to him if you can and see if he'll come around, but don't be pushy and scare him off. Maybe you could ask him exactly why the relationship didn't work out?
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