Ok i have this friend(girl) and she goes both ways i know she liked me a long time ago becuase she told me but i told her i was not like that. As you know i have a finance and everything is going good but lately i have been thinking about doing things with her. I know if i tell her she will want to do things too, but i'm just not sure. WHen i think about another girl licking on me or me on another girl i get grossed out but for some reason i just want to kiss her its always in my mind but i don't want a sexual or relationship with her. I don't know why i feel this way. Sometimes my finance jokes about having a threesome and i know if we everydid i would want her to be the 3rd one. I don't know sometimes i want her and him but don't know why please help me!
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You're curious. That's okay and it's normal, espcially in a culture which makes it APPEAR that same-sex sex is radically different than opposite-sex sex.
(Hint: it's really not.)
(There also aren't "lines" in threesomes, where someone is the first or the third, for the record.)
But if you're grossed out by the idea of sex with her, sparing anything but kissing -- which is smething many of us so commonly do in a variety of contexts with people of all genders -- chances are good it's only curiousity, and an idea you might want to let go of, since your friend is a person, not a petrie dish.
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