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fatherjason
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I like this chick named Jessica quite a bit. I've never really felt like it about anyone before. before I dated someone because I thought they were hot and whatnot. It was all because of sexual attraction those times. But when i think if her it isn't sexual based at all. I want to be with her, I want to cuddle with her. Unfortunately the same night she met me, she met an older dude ,22, when she went to a bar to eat dinner. Now she can't decide who she like better. We only met like 3 days or so ago, so everything is very new yet. I asked to take her out to the movies tomorrow, to get more alone time between me and her and hopefully win her over. Is their anything else I should do to make her mine? Should I plant a kiss on her or something? I'm already driving and paying for everything to show her that I can take care of her. [Confused] [Confused] [Confused]
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SnailShells
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Be polite, be an active listener, be on your best behavior, but still be yourself.

Ultimately, it's up to her. You've only known her for 3 days, so expecting a full-on relationship immediately might not be realistic. Good luck [Smile]

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fatherjason
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yes, I realize that I can't outright expect it of her do do anything in my favor. It is her choice. I'm just saying is their anything sweet that I can do for her by surprise. Its a teeter toter that I can't stomp on to make it move myself, I have to persuade it to tip my way. all I'm asking for are some helpful tips. And thanks for the ones you have provided, even though I planned to do all of those any who =-D
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