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k so there is this girl. I wouldnt say she is hot as hell but i'd say shes really cute, and really nice. I go to h.s she's in a couple of my classes and we sorta small talk but shes the kinda girl that doesnt talk alot unless you give her something to talk about which is my problem. I have talked to her enough and created enough of a connection to ask her to go see a movie or sumthing but the thing is she is the type of girl that is all straight edge, nice and funny and really great friend material but shes never had a bf before (and i've dated a few people) so how am i suppost to make it obvious to her that im not just being really nice to her cause i want to be friends but that i might have a relationship interest. (o yeh obviously im not after sex cause thats just being a dick, i just think shes the type of girl i want to be with and someone that i could appreciate and show possibly love towards).

basically im asking what do i do to get her into seeing that i want to possibly date her.

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Hey NiceGuy,

A good start would be asking her to the movie. Though she may not have ever had a boyfriend, I'm pretty sure she will realize that you may want a relationship.

Another suggestion I would have would be to talk to her honestly about how you are feeling. Tell her that you want a relationship, and whatever else is on your mind. And make sure that the conversation is open for her to tell you what she is thinking as well.

Best of luck.

There is an upside to everything, sometimes you just have to turn it upside down to find it.

:-) Vikki (-:

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thanks [Smile] I was thinking about the movie but hearing that from a girl makes me feel more confident about it. And as far as the feelings, I'll probably get into that but I might wait till she sees I'm interested before laying on her how I feel and such. Thanks for the support [Smile]
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