My boyfriend and I have been talking and he says he doesn't feel the same way he did about me like he did before. He said he fell for me, and now he says that "spark" that was so intense before, isn't as intense anymore, the spark is still there he says though. We're going to try and make it work, but I just wanted to know your guys' input on the whole thing if he could ever feel the same way again, or if we need to take a break? I love him, and I can't see myself without him...Thanks.
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Love isn't necessarily a constant; it fluctuates call the time. A fire would be a good analogy: it only starts once, and once it's going, it's always changing. You feed it, you keep it going to prevent it from going out, but it's never the same from one moment to the next.
So,it's not out the realm of possibility that he feels differently about you now. That's not to say he no longer feels for you at all, it's just different than before. That's okay, and that's expected.
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