Lately, I feel kind of distant from my boyfrind. I don't even know why. But I reflect on the days when he seemed to be madly in love with me. While I want to talk about it, I don't want to say it like that. And when I do mention it, or act if there's something wrong, he'll say no - maybe that's true, but I still feel like he's not as close to me as he used to be. He used to always tell me he loved me, or that I was beautiful, and would love to be connected at my hip. Not so much anymore. And when we're talking, he doesn't even seem to be listening.
Not only that, but I feel distant from him. Maybe things are getting boring? We usually just go over each other's houses...and lay on the couch to watch tv. We don;t have cars, we live half an hour away from each other, don't have a lot of cash, and he doesn't really have hobbies, and isn't into doing things like cooking. I'm sure maybe he does just want to lay around.
And BECAUSE he has no hobbies, just loves music (I got him an iHome last year), he's SO hard to shop for. He doesn't love clothes, either, and I can't think of anything unique to make. Not even picture album - we have like none. I also feel like he thinks "mushy" things like that are silly.
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