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RawrItsStina
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Hey. Well, first off, I like this guy and his name is Ben. He's really nice and friendly, and he likes me back. Now, yesterday, I hung out with him and I hugged him twice. =D And I'm going to the movies with him and a bunch of friends tomorrow. He can be really shy, especially with asking girls out. How can I make him more comfortable with me? Oh, and he knows that I like him. And his friend came up to him and I was standing with him (not next to him) and asked, "Who's this? You're girlll friend?" And he didn't deny it, He just kind of smiled, and I smiled back. Does that mean hes comfortable with me, or he just likes to flirt? I'm so confusedd.
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Heather
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Really, comofrt and trust tends to simply just come with time: it takes time to learn to really be comfortable with someone.

So, what you can do is just be yourself, be a good communicator, and just give things the time they require to develop. It's just not something you can rush with someone.

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LoV3r
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So, you know FOR SURE he likes you back? Because this part---"Who's this? You're girlll friend?" And he didn't deny it, He just kind of smiled, and I smiled back.---might just have been him not wanting to hurt your feelings? (Not to rain on your parade.)

Sounds like you two are friendly though. Maybe you should start talking to him more so he's not so 'shy' around you.

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