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allygirl14
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ok there is this boy i've know over 6-9 years and i really like him but dont want to ruin our friendship what do i doo ? [Confused] [Frown]

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ghostie
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Have you any indication of if he likes you back, or more importantly would he be likely to be awkward if you told him how you feel?
How close to this boy are you?

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marie45
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I think that the only way to actually know if this boy likes you is to straight tell him how you feel. That is the only thing that has ever worked for me and now i am with someone i really care about. And if your not ready to do that just see how he acts around you the next couple of days, see if he finds ways to sit by you or touch you.

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muisy
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Think about your friendship first, like is it a real friendship relationship, or do you hang out when other people hang out? Not that I'm trying to imply your not friends, I'm just saying, if you guys are like actual friends then it might be easier brought up casually. Maybe hint to him about both of you, you can try flirting to see how he reacts, or ask him if he likes anyone. Or you can be straight up, tell him you've been thinking about him more than just friends, and see what he thinks. It could be hard if he doesn't like you that way back, because then it could be awkward trying to be friends, but maybe not. College soon right? Go ahead, tell him!
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