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borat
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Sorry I don't know if this is the right forum really. Anyway, I don't know what my problem is but I just get nervous around girls for some reason. Like sometimes it seems like I'm too nervous to even make eye contact. Usually it's only girls I think are attractive. This seems wierd to me. I do things that take a hell of a lot of confidence, but for some reason I seem to get nervous about this, and I don't get it. I think I'm pretty decent looking (yeah ok aside from the mild acne haha). Any way to get over it really? Probably one of my problems is I don't get too much social contact.
Well anyway I just wanted to know how normal this is lol. It's kind of annoying. Thanks.

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That is perfectly normal. I used to be really shy as well. Forcing yourself to make eye contact will work wonders. Once you've started making eye contact in your conversations, you'll be able to relax more, and not think so much about what to say. Trust me, eye contact does a lot. [Smile]

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PaigeyWaigey
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I am this way as well around some guys..

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FightMusic
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"it seems like I'm too nervous to even make eye contact. Usually it's only girls I think are attractive" THATS ME

and i only get nervous around guys when im about to fight them

which is why i think girls are the same way to me [Eek!]

In school, dont feel akward, just lay back a little bit and relax

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borat
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Thanks for the replies.
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Shooting For The Stars X
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Im the exact same borat, dont worry.
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Begin communicating with one girl: your neighbor or smb. Just talk with them and you'll see that everything is alright. Don't think about it too much. It's important not to try to talk with "not your" people. Talk only with girls which you like (I don't speak about love). And when you are to speak with smb you don't like just imagine that there is a wall beside you. Keep it easy.
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