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Read my last topic if u want more information about the guy i'm talking about. x

I left school today, i still have to do my exams but anyway...everybody was upset and everything, nearly everyone was crying, even me, my guy mate who i like saw me crying, came up to me, hugged me and said "I'm sorry i haven't talked to you" (for the past week or so on msn he wouldn't talk to me, we normally talk everyday)

So, he walked off and i was quite happy because i thought that we were back on speaking terms, but then tonight he wouldn't talk to me on msn again! Grrr i'm so annoyed and confused. I have no idea why hes like this with me. If anyone has any opinions on why he might be acting like this, please reply.

Also, because me and him have left school now, i'm hardly going to get to see him anymore, maybe not at all if he carries on like this, but if i talk to him and we are still friends is there a good way to ask him to hang out with me one time without him thinking i'm asking him for a date? I've never hung out with him out of school before so i wouldn't know how to suggest it to him. And where would u recommend us going if we did hang out?

Keep in mind that i live in england so there isn't much to do over here.


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Well, just because he feels sorry about not talking to you doesn't mean he planned to start talking again. Plus, people are often more emotional on a day like today with someone leaving.

I really think you might want to re-read the advice origami_jane had for you in your last post, because it was sage advice.

In a word, this guy is sending every message possible that he is NOT interested anymore, and I think that is why he's like this with you. I think you need to start hearing those messages and move on.

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