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drumer.dreams
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Ok even tho he always says hed never ask me too i know my b/f wants me to give him a hand/blow job.. just he way he acts about it and all i know he wnats it but is scared to fully ask.... what should i do ..im really shy and such so i cnat just suprise him and do it and i dont wanna talk about it b/c hell just say what he htinks i wanna hear.. the thing is i would and kinda want to do something for him im just scared....

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Gumdrop Girl
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If you are absolutely sure that you can handle that level of sexual activity, you need to be able to say so. When you two are together, just tell him where you'd like to go, and ask if he's okay with it. If you're going to be intimate, that should be a time when you should be able to speak candidly. After all, isn't communication a part of intimcacy? (yes it is)

Anyway, in short, if you can't say it, you're not really ready. Just bring yourself to tell him you want to go a little further, and if he's okay with it, there you go.

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drumer.dreams
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Well weve gone all the way and im usally open about all that its just this one thing scares me.. i guess b/c i dont wanna screw up or him not like it....

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Gumdrop Girl
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Then have him talk you through it so you can make sure you're doing things as he likes.

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