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xcellularxbabex
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So i've liked this guy for awile, and according to my friends he flirts back. So when I tell him I like him, he isn't surprised but acts like nothing happend.

When I talked to him about it he didn't do anything... and we still talk and are friends. My friends say he is still trying to figure out how he feels...

My real delema is his friend. He rags on me all the time... and bugs me and trys to turn me off of my crush.

I really like my crush, but hes not reacting to what i've told him. And his friend isn't turning me off from my crush directly, but by his actions.

So i guess the problem is I like this guy, but I HATE his friend. So anyhelp would be great


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HH_demiurge
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As to your crush's inaction, it is entirely possible for guys to be terrified of the prospect of asking someone out, or even telling someone how they feel. This phenomenon is not restricted to sitcoms. It is not considered culturally acceptable for males to emotional, and it's not like anybody ever tells them how to deal with feelings so in many cases they simply don't know how. It could even be that his friend is making hom diffident about openly liking you.
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xcellularxbabex
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Thanks, that kinda helps... but still makes life difficult. Our schools homecomeing dance is coming up, and I was hoping to go with him, but now I'm not so sure. He's not reacting and I agree that his friend may have somthing to do with it. But that dosn't help matters either lol
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