since sex my bf tends to not say i love you or anything complimenting to me, maybe its the fact he thinks that ''oh we hav sex so she knows i do'' thing but i dunno, really. i should really talk to him about it but dont have the guts cause im scared.
Anyway a couple of days ago i got angry, well not angry but hurt that he didnt want me coming to his party, basically he sed taht he was glad i wasnt going cause he didnt want to be in trouble with his mum. This was an end of exams party too..
i feel like as i have only just talked to him about 45mins ago, he came in said wahts up, i told him i was hurt by that and that i feel that its one sided with our catchin up, ie he wont ask me what im doing. anyway he just told a friend that her bf want to break up with her, everyone at the party was asking about them and also us, apparently. this convo lasted 2 mins max, face to face that is.
He used that im willing to give what we have a shot line.
i tryd to call him the day it started and he didnt pick up so i msgd his sister and as i wans angry i called him a few names and she must have told im what i said.
he told me he didnt like what i said, i said i was angry and didnt mean it. he sent this sms the day before saying that untill i cant tell him what i feel to his face then he would have nothing to say to me! that hurt.
Now it feels like there is still s**t in the air and i want him to say that everything is okay and reasure me, cause i feel that i half assed hugs from him at the end of this and telling me that he has to meet a mate is not kool. i mean not im beating myself up; i should have told him everything....
what the hell should i do, i still care bout him but i just want to bother him....
does anyone else think that sex causes complications and issue, how did you get passd them?
Help asap!!! im so confused, it hurts
[This message has been edited by shon (edited 11-21-2005).]