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shon
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since sex my bf tends to not say i love you or anything complimenting to me, maybe its the fact he thinks that ''oh we hav sex so she knows i do'' thing but i dunno, really. i should really talk to him about it but dont have the guts cause im scared.

Anyway a couple of days ago i got angry, well not angry but hurt that he didnt want me coming to his party, basically he sed taht he was glad i wasnt going cause he didnt want to be in trouble with his mum. This was an end of exams party too..

i feel like as i have only just talked to him about 45mins ago, he came in said wahts up, i told him i was hurt by that and that i feel that its one sided with our catchin up, ie he wont ask me what im doing. anyway he just told a friend that her bf want to break up with her, everyone at the party was asking about them and also us, apparently. this convo lasted 2 mins max, face to face that is.
He used that im willing to give what we have a shot line.

i tryd to call him the day it started and he didnt pick up so i msgd his sister and as i wans angry i called him a few names and she must have told im what i said.
he told me he didnt like what i said, i said i was angry and didnt mean it. he sent this sms the day before saying that untill i cant tell him what i feel to his face then he would have nothing to say to me! that hurt.

Now it feels like there is still s**t in the air and i want him to say that everything is okay and reasure me, cause i feel that i half assed hugs from him at the end of this and telling me that he has to meet a mate is not kool. i mean not im beating myself up; i should have told him everything....

what the hell should i do, i still care bout him but i just want to bother him....

does anyone else think that sex causes complications and issue, how did you get passd them?

Help asap!!! im so confused, it hurts

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Being vindictive and holding grudges is not a healthy situation for a relationship.

You and he need to talk. Tell him what you feel. Let him have his say. But you also need to be prepared that he might not want this relationship to go any further.

You get past issues by talking about them. That's really the only way. They don't suddenly fix themselves overnight.


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that is true but i think im gonna leave him alone for a bit, everything is okay i just want him to say it.
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Then tell him. That's all you can do.

It is wise to let tempers cool down for a bit, then approach the subject. Things don't get done when everyone is angry.

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