please someone help me! I need some advice really bad. My Boyfriend of 6 monthes dumped me in sept- ember saying that he didnt know what he wanted and he needed time. OK, so we didint talk at all for one month, and just recently the last couple weeks we have been talking again. Well, The talking turned into flirting, and on halloween, we ended up having sex. It was the most amazing sex we have had in a long time, and he still flirts with me, but.. he makes comments that make me wonder what he is feeling. The one that really stood out to me was when I said "I love whats the worse for me," and then HE SAID" The further somthing gets from you, the more you want it too huh" Is there a chance he may still have feelings for me and want to try again or am i just a "booty call"?? Please someone help me!
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You know, the only way to know what sort of relationship he wants is to ask him.
For the record, it's not uncommon for couples to seek resolution out with sex, and opften for that "breakup sex," to be pretty amazing stuff. So, even if he doesn't want to enter back into a relationship -- and again, that's something for a couple to discuss, not assume -- there may be other things going on here besides "botty call."
Oh you poor thing. I had a boyfriend that did the exact same thing to me. He had the same reasons for breaking up also. The comment "I love whats the worst for me" is what bothers me the most. Often my ex was confused, same way this guy seems confused. He would talk in riddle like that also. He didnt know what he wanted. He loved me yet knew that our relationship was bad for him.
My personal opinion is that he does still have feelings for you but hes just in a really confused state right now. I wouldnt push him with the issue. Let him figure it out himself. My question is does he feel guilty for the sex that you guys had??
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