Got Questions?  Get Answers. Post New Topic  New Poll  Post A Reply
my profile | directory login | register | search | faq | forum home

  next oldest topic   next newest topic
» Got Questions? Get Answers. » SCARLETEEN CENTRAL » Relationships » Testing the water

 - UBBFriend: Email this page to someone!    
Author Topic: Testing the water
richard77
Activist
Member # 17257

Icon 1 posted      Profile for richard77     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
I recently started a new part time job and a couple of days into the position I was out with a few friends when I bumped into a girl I worked with. Up until this point I did not recognise her but she knew me, I secretly felt she was flirting with me and later when I was speaking to one of my friends he confirmed this. I made a move for her later in the night while I was quite drunk and she was likewise but she knocked me back. Since then while at work there is no real difficulty between the two of us, sometimes I find he a little brash but others shes quite nice. I actually quite like the girl and I would like to go out with her. I'm not sure what to do next as I have already tried it on with her once and would I would take a second rejection badly. Can anyone help?
Posts: 66 | Registered: Mar 2004  |  IP: Logged | Report this post to a Moderator
LilBlueSmurf
Scarleteen Volunteer
Member # 1207

Icon 1 posted      Profile for LilBlueSmurf     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
A second rejection may very well be possible ... You have to know this going in.

You have to weigh the risks for yourself. How important is this to you? If she does say no, are you going to take no for an answer this time? (I would highly recommend that ...)


Posts: 7168 | From: Ontario | Registered: Sep 2000  |  IP: Logged | Report this post to a Moderator
richard77
Activist
Member # 17257

Icon 1 posted      Profile for richard77     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
Your correct I have now went right of her I think Im a little too good for her anyway.
Posts: 66 | Registered: Mar 2004  |  IP: Logged | Report this post to a Moderator
fluffypink
Neophyte
Member # 25093

Icon 1 posted      Profile for fluffypink     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
ask her out just to hang out at first..
something as simple as "you busy this weekend? want to do something?"
could be all it takes.

Posts: 22 | From: miss, on, canada | Registered: Aug 2005  |  IP: Logged | Report this post to a Moderator
   

Quick Reply
Message:

HTML is not enabled.
UBB Code™ is enabled.

Instant Graemlins
   


Post New Topic  New Poll  Post A Reply Close Topic   Feature Topic   Move Topic   Delete Topic next oldest topic   next newest topic
 - Printer-friendly view of this topic
Hop To:


Contact Us | Get the Whole Story! Go Home to SCARLETEEN: Sex Ed for the Real World | Privacy Statement

Copyright 1998, 2013 Heather Corinna/Scarleteen
Scarleteen.com: Providing comprehensive sex education online to teens and young adults worldwide since 1998

Information on this site is provided for educational purposes. It is not meant to and cannot substitute for advice or care provided by an in-person medical professional. The information contained herein is not meant to be used to diagnose or treat a health problem or disease, or for prescribing any medication. You should always consult your own healthcare provider if you have a health problem or medical condition.

Powered by UBB.classic™ 6.7.3

Google
Search Scarleteen