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boarder50
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Okay i dont know if im inthe right spot but... Anyways. I need help really bad, I dont know what to do. I've been seeing this girl for over a year and a half now. I am soo i love with her but she does one thing that bothers me very much. I have tried telling her about it but she doesnt seem to concerned about it. It's about her going out to clubs without inviting me. She gets mad when i tell her i dont like it and that i would like to go. Whenever i say that she they go to clubs that have different age restraints for men and women so that i can not get in. Thing is that i trust her 100% that she will not cheat on me and that nothing will happen bc of the fact that we both a deeply in love. What can i do about this. It makes me soo mad that can get us into fights. I really have no problem with her seeing her friends anywhere else i just dont like her going to a club without me. I guess it my past experiences but she doesnt seem to even care the least bit. She always tells me it doesnt matter and she's going anyways... WTF do i do. Thanks people
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Heather
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Sounds like you need a compromise.

Try this one on: she gets to go to clubs on her own if she likes. Restricting that sort of thing from a partner just isn't fair: if you have trust issues, work on'em, but effectively grounding her like a parent isn't salient.

AND: you get to go with her now and then, too, if YOU like going out clubbing, not because you want to police her. If where she's going you're underage, then ask for a club night now and then with her somewhere you CAN both go.

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