There is one person in my class who keeps smiling at me. She kept looking at me, glancing at me, and kept on smiling. I thought she was interested in me. After class she would wait for me to spark a conversation. We got to know each other a bit then one day she gave me a note. It said, "Have a great rest of the day! I get off work at 7 or so. I'll emal you back then I promise . I've been sick the past few days so I apologize for not emailing. I sure have missed talking to you though! "
I know I'm not giving much details here. I'm curious if she is interested in me or not. Advice ?
Right now, I don't think you have to do anything.
Who says you have to jump in and say "I really like you, but I think we should just be friends"?
Sounds like your friendship is going pretty well, so why do anything to alter it? Unless she makes a move on you, I don't think you have to do anything, or say anything to anyone at the moment.
And if she does make a move: simple, plain english. "I am in a relationship right now, but I'd really like to stay friends with you because I value our friendship". Those simple words may not hurt as much as you think they might
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