Ok I have a big problem. there is this guy "will" I used to date and was really hooked on , only thing I never felt any chemestry between us. well we have always been great friends and everything but latley he has been presuring me to do things i dont want to do. like come to his house and do some full frontal snogging... ( read the new louise rennison book i love it!) well not with him that is.. I Really Like this guy "travis" and he likes me too ... I think.. were going out to the movies next friday and "will" hates this . Im not going to just blow off travis for will even though he is a good friend. How can i tell him to cool it and get a girl friend and stop bothering me?
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Sometimes it can be really hard to let go of past relationships. One person may move on while the other one keeps hoping for reconciliation. The best thing to do is to talk to him. Tell Will that right now you're seeing someone else and that you don't feel starting a relationship with him would be a good idea. Ask him to respect your wishes and remain friends.
Be straight with Will about your feelings for him (purely platonic). Ask him if he is capable of just being friends with you. If he isn't then it's probably best you don't see him until he can respect your feelings on this. If he says he can handle it but continually pesters you for full frontal snogging (yeah, that was a great book - the second one was good too!)you will seriously have to consider cooling the friendship. Somebody that continually bugs you about doing stuff you're not into isn't respecting you or your friendship.
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