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A little less than a year ago this guy who rode my bus asked me out to the homecoming dance. I was so shocked that anyone would EVER ask me out to a dance and I didn't know what to say so I said 'maybe' and took the question as a rhetorical one. We still talked to each other, and we were good acquaintances. He switched schools a while afterward, so I haven't seen him for a LONG time. I'm still interested in him and his number IS in the phonebook. Would it be a good idea to call him, or would I be stalking him if I did? We weren't very close when we still saw each other on a regular basis, I wonder if he would be happy to talk to me.
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I think that you should give him a call. Ask how how he has been and ask him if he's interested in together (as friends) sometime. Then proceed w/ the relationship from there.

No, i wouldn't think that you are stalking the guy, all you're doing is calling him, it's not like you are showing up at his house 24/7 or calling him every minute of the day. So i wouldn't worry about tht.

So go ahead and call him, ya never know what might happen, you might regret it if you didn't.


*A person that asks a question is a fool for 5 minutes, a person who doesn't is a fool forever*

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Calling someone and seeing if they are interested in you = perfectly alright

Calling someone 8500 times in one week after they have told you not to call them = stalking

Just so we're clear


[This message has been edited by BruinDan (edited 09-26-2002).]

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