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Valerie_f4
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For a father to ask his daughter her breast size? Or talk about his past sexual experiences?
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Robin Lee
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Hi Valerie,

Looking back at your previous posts, I see that your father has been sexually abusive to you for a long time.

Asking you your breast size and telling you about his sexual experiences sounds like a continuation of this abusive behaviour.

i'm wondering a few things:

Do you live with your father or depend on him in any way, such as for financial support?

Have you ever received any counselling or other support around the abuse and harassment you experienced as a child?

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Robin

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Heather
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Valerie, I just wanted to check in with you here to see if you were okay.

It sounds like you aren't, and like something very wrong is potentially happening at your home. If answering on the boards puts you at risk or isn't something you're comfortable with, this is a situation where it would certainly be okay to email us, okay?

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