So i am seeing someone on tuesday. I am terrified to tell her about my sexual abuse i have went thro. I am scared of being judged and that i will lose her and I will not be able to talk. I am scared that i will have no where to go and i will be more abed to get abused
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Hello diamonddust44, Is it a counsellor who you are seeing? I'm sorry you're feeling so scared about talking with her. Please know that it is their job to listen and help, without judging you, whatever you wish to talk about. Is there anything which could make this easier for you? For example, taking a friend or support person along? Or maybe writing a note for the counsellor about your concerns, in case you're not able to talk fully at that time? I hope that it goes ok for you.
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