Hi, I've been with my boyfrind for nearly a year now but the problem is that he gets really paranoid. He's really jealous of all my male friends. He always accuses me of flirting with other guys and he starts shouting and gets really angry. Afterwards he is always sorry and realises that I wasn't doing anything wrong. He realises he's gets very paranoid and he wants to change. Please help as we don't know what to do.
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Checklist  My partner is very jealous, gets jealous easily  My partner follows me around, checks up on me a lot  My partner tries to control how I dress or who I spend time with (friends, family, coworkers)  My partner yells, calls me names, puts me down  I hide things that I think would upset or anger my partner (phone numbers, letters, photos)  I am afraid to say no to sex  My partner threatens me, or has threatened me My partner hits, throws or breaks things when angry  I am afraid to disagree with my partner  My partner has pushed, slapped, punched or otherwise hurt me I feel like my partner's anger is my fault
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