Sure, maybe he's been hurt before - but until he can avoid taking his hurt out on other people, maybe he's not ready to be in a relationship again.

If he's behaving in this paranoid and controlling way, it really isn't fair and it really isn't a good sign. And accusing you of lying for failing to promise what he wanted definitely sounds like a bad sign.

It makes sense to try and discuss this all with him and see if he's able to recognize that there's a problem with his behaviour, or explain any reasons he has for behaving in this way. But if he can't or won't change, then it may be that the relationship doesn't have a chance, or may actually be heading into emotionally abusive territory.

Obviously I don't know this guy and he's not here to defend himself, but if that were an issue for you then you wouldn't be here asking for advice. I call things like I see them and based upon what you've described I see someone who isn't fit to have a girlfriend. I were you I'd run the other way.