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Heather
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More help I need from you! (It's fun this time, really.)

What slang terms have you heard for any or all of the following:
- kissing/making out
- petting
- dry sex
- manual sex/fingering
- oral sex (fellatio/cunnilingus/rimming)
- anal sex
- vaginal sex/intercourse


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Milke
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It might be helpful to state what context you've heard the slang in, and where you live. Certain words can be regional, and have different meanings in different places.

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Anal sex: tossing the salad, fudge packing
Kissing: sucking face
Oral sex: head, going down

And I live in Houston, TX!


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Kissing: Scoring, snogging, meeting, getting off with, necking.

Dry sex: Humping

Manual sex: Wanking a guy off, fingering,

Oral sex on a man: Blow job, giving head.
Oral sex on a woman: Lick out.

Oral sex during a woman's period: Rainbow kiss.

Anal sex: A bummy.

And I'm in Cork, Ireland!

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tossing the salad-is not anal sex its is eating out a female and licking her ass all together or licking/sucking a guys balls and licking his ass
fudge packer- is anal sex but only between two guys if ur gay its called fudge packer
Kissing-hockey
oral sex 4 guy- brain, head, dome, serve him up, suck him up, blow job
oral sex 4 female- lickin lips, eatin out,
having sex- gettin laid, screwing

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Dare I add to this? Oral sex in my area is called "blessing" or giving "top" - I guess because it's urban and kids need easier ways to say sex terms without parents understanding. It's changing more often now and getting a little more complicated because a lot of slang is used in rap songs and stuff. So brains - we stopped using so much. "Brizzie" is like a twisted way to say brains, which is a way to say oral sex, so that adults don't understand as well. Just like "For shizzle my nizzle" is "For sure my ni-" you know. Having sex is known as "Jaying" or "Smashing" or down south it's known as "cutting." I live in New York, next to the Bronx - we get real creative around here. When you have anal sex it's called getting done in your butt really. I don't know much terms for it. Getting anally raped in jail is they "took you for your peanut butter." which is pretty self explanatory. I got one! "Poking the Dookie Chute." Not very popular. Giving oral sex to a girl is called "Yamma Yamma", or "Yums." To a boy would be "womps" or "Dome," which is a way to say head. Or, getting your "knob slobbed." There's more - but I don't want to crowd...
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Bo0tyLici0u$ - you live in California and I'm in Texas. There are different meanings for slang words, so just because you call one thing tossing the salad doesn't mean we all do.

I've heard teabagging for sucking testes and dome for oral sex on a male...how do these come to be?!


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Kissing: making out, necking, tonsil hockey and just plain KISSING

Dry Sex: humping, grinding

Manual: Fingering, jacking someone off

Oral: Eating out, going down, licking, giving head, & 69

Intercourse: banging, screwing, laying, bedding

This comes from Ontario, kids!


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Heather
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"Tonsil hockey."

Can I avoid saying that could ONLY be prevalent in Canada? I don't think so.

That's one of the more comical ones I've heard in a good while.


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Kissing =Tonsil Tennis here, now that you mention sports. lol

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The big thing to call kissing around here (southern New Mexico / Trans-Pecos area) is "trading slober".

This is kinda off topic, but the "in" thing for guys to say about their girlfriends when they won't kiss their boyfriend in public is "she kisses that God D*** horse more than she kisses me!" I must confess, I was somewhat responsible for the creation of this one

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Vancouver BC here

Sex: gettting down
Guy manual sex: Jacking off
Girl Manual sex: banging
Oral on a guy: giveing head or domes
Oral on a girl: eating her out
Anal: backdoor (as in "Did Kurt back door sally last night?!)

and most of the usual stuff.


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kissing/making out: macking, snogging, exchanging saliva samples (or variations on this theme...swapping spit, et cetera), shooting up (okay, so this one's kind of an inside joke...i had a friend who frequently referred to her boyfriend as an addiction. so whenever i saw the two of them sucking face in the hallways, i'd fake-scold her for doing drugs at school...which eventually extended to frequent, shared muttering that people in general need to stop "shooting up" in front of the drama program lockers).

as far as the others go...i generally find that, among my specific friends, anyhow, the terms for any kind of sexual act inolving anybody's genitals are pretty interchangeable. i actually had a really interesting moment earlier this school term when the principal refused to allow us to say (in a play that's currently in rehearsals) that two women were "banging". it took me a long time to come up with a term that was still slangy and harsh enough to suit the character who was speaking, but also acceptable from an our-principal's-cool-with-this-representing-us-as-a-catholic-school...we eventually ended up with "shtupping", which nobody else in the cast had ever heard before, but which has quickly become the pet sex-slang word among our group since...the whole word-replacement process made me think a lot harder than i ever figured i would about the tiny differences in conotations of certain sex terms...and how much of those conotations actually has grounds in their origins, and how much of it is aaaalll about the weird things our brains make up when we're not paying attention. (for example: for some reason i always assumed that both "fornication" and "copulation" indicated a form of sex that was conducive to reproduction...but that has no part in the literal definition of either term)...

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- kissing/making out

Getting off with, pulling,

& loads of sport analogies with "the old game of" prefixing them, ie: "Sooner or later she and I were right engaged playing a good game of the old tonsil hockey, you should have seen her going for the ball."

- dry sex

dry shagging?

- petting

touching up,

- manual sex/fingering
tossing off, getting someone off,

- oral sex (fellatio/cunnilingus/rimming)
giving head, going down on, sucking off, licking out, blow-job, giving a good "seeing to".

- anal sex
bumming, doing someone up the bum,

- vaginal sex/intercourse
*******, shagging, all the way, having sex, giving the "once over", the old one-two.

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- kissing/making out
sucking face, hooking up, frenching ("making out" is by far the most common term)

- petting
groping, feeling up, feeling on

- dry sex
dry humping, grinding

- manual sex/fingering
handjob, jerking off (m), fingerf*ck

- oral sex (fellatio/cunnilingus/rimming)
blowjob, sucking d*ck(m), going down, giving head, hooking up, eating out (f)

- anal sex
backdoor, *** sex, butt sex, in the butt (and then a bunch that are meant to be comical, like riding the hershey highway)

- vaginal sex/intercourse
hooking up, doing it, f*cking, screwing, making love, banging, sleeping with

*Note, at least where I am (that being the east coast of the U.S., "hooking up" is purposely an ambiguous term that could cover a wide range of activities)

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One of my favorites for intercourse is the "horizontal tango" (you can insert most other dances there too: "horizontal mambo," "horizontal foxtrot," etc.). Pretty much all of the other ones I know have already been mentioned.

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-kissing: kissing, snogging, getting off
-petting: getting boob, getting a handful
-dry sex: grinding, humping
-manual sex (on a woman): fingering
-manual sex (on a man): giving a wank, pulling off
-oral sex (on a man): giving head, sucking off, bow job
-oral sex (on a woman): going down, eating out
-anal sex: bum job, bumming, assf***
-intercourse: getting off (confusing cause this also means kissing, leads to rumors [Big Grin] ), sh*gging, banging, screwing, laying (as in 'I laid her'), getting someone in the sack, f**king
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anal sex, or just talking about the anus in general : an0r
someone asked what teabagging was, its when a male squats over someone lying down, and puts his testes's in their mouth, and moves up and down. It is more done as a prank to the person who gets "teabagged" than for sexual gratification. Teabagging is usually done on a person asleep or drunk, as a prank. It is also done in online games as a way of celebrating a kill and taunting. ( the chatacter stands over the dead body and crouches repeatedly.)

I would suggest urbandictionary, which has probally the most compreshensive list of these words.
These words are from the internet

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It is more done as a prank to the person who gets "teabagged" than for sexual gratification. Teabagging is usually done on a person asleep or drunk, as a prank. It is also done in online games as a way of celebrating a kill and taunting. ( the chatacter stands over the dead body and crouches repeatedly.)

I would suggest urbandictionary, which has probally the most compreshensive list of these words. "

I've got to say that some of this is false information. Teabagging is a real sexual act, and some people certainly do it for sexual gratification. Urbandictionary is something users always want to be careful with. It has some interesting information, but it also has a lot of varying opinions on what words mean.

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Just to echo iheartdc, "teabagging" IS a real sexual act, so it's pretty important to be careful with ANY slang words in general- as this thread has proven, slang words can mean many different things to different people, and we don't want to inadvertently offend people. [Smile]

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WEll I live in Michigan and alot of these things i have never heard of...
Kissing-Makein out and slobbin
petting-fellin up and or down
dry sex-humping or grinding with your cloths on
Manual(girl)-fingering
Manual(boys)-jackin off and hand job
Oral(girls)-lickin cat,eatin out,carpet munchin
Oral(boys)-Dome,Head,Squirl,goin down,suckin up
anal sex-poop pokin, fudge drop
Vaginal(sex)-gettin laid,gettin some,layin down,flippin,or havin sex

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Kissing- Swapin Spit

Petting? wtf never heard of that haha

Manual- handjob, jacking off, fingering

Oral- head, dome, goin down, eating out, carpet muncher

Anal sex- umm we dont do that here!

Sex sex- ****in, banging, laid, getting some


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Heather
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(I'm going to close this, just because this is old and no longer information needed, and so there's no need to have a thread where clearly it's way too easy for people to come in posting misinformation or bad attitudes others to have to clean up that doesn't serve any real purpose anymore.)

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