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Me and my boyfriend, both 20, have been dating five years. Well, last year we had it off. We never had sex until last week. I was a virgin he wasn't. For the past week we've had sex everyday but I don't feel pleasure or moan. It feels like nothing. He says it feels good but not as that good. It is not painful. My first time went well with him. I didn't bleed a lot, barely anything. When he fingers me it feels amazing. Could it be that I get to wet ? Or he isn't big enough? I asked about his previous sex life during the time we broke up and he doesn't remember much but he lasted longer. The first time he lasted 20 second until he came. The longest has been a minute. We both get frustrated. He doesn't say anything but I know. I want to have that sex everyone talk about how amazing it feels. I am in love with him and he is with me. We moved in together a month ago and plan on getting married. Help ?!?! What is going on? Is it because its my first couple of times? Will it get better?
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Please do not double-post. It is against the guidelines you agreed to when you signed up.

I have answered your question here:

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