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shaundi
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Ok so my boyfriend and i have been together 4years today. And he wants to come over and hang out but im scared because just recently we had a pregnancy scare and im still not over it. We are both virgins btw. My problem is that him and i sat down with one another and i said that i dont want to do anything other then kiss him. But when ever im around him he really gets me goin if u know wat i mean [Wink] i want to b strong and really stand my ground with this choice but i find it hard. I tried thinking about the stress i go through win ever we do things (even if we are careful i still get worried). But that jus dosent work. Can someone please give me an idea of how i can keep myself from doing somthing i will regret later????

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Robin Lee
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HI shaundi,

I'm wondering how it would be if you talked to your boyfriend about this, and agreed with him that you'll both help each other maintain the limits you've decided work best for you?

Do you think he would go for helping you with that?

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shaundi
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That sounds like a good idea. Im gonna also plan our night out so that we are doing things. Because every time we try to do a movie night just the 2 of us no one watches the movie. I hope i can stand strong because i hate worrying about everything. Thanks for the idea:)

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Robin Lee
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You're very welcome. Sounds like planning the evening's activities will also make things easier for you. Good luck, and have fun spending time with your boyfriend. [Smile]

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