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Thedarkestsong
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I have been trying anal masturbation recently using my fingers, I enjoy it but I want to take it a step further and use a toy or something, what would be the best thing to use and what would be the best way to use it ?
Is it possible to have an orgasm by Anal masturbation alone and how is it different then an orgasm with your frontal genitals ?


I was born genetically male, so I do have a prostate.

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Heather
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have you already taken a look at the information about this on the site? If not, give a shout, and I'll drop you some links for more comprehensive information.

In a nutshell, you want to stick to toys designed to be used anally, which mostly means that they have a flared base. You also want to make sure to use plenty of lubricant, probably like you already do with your fingers.

There is no "best way" per what feels good: that's something you'll find out with by experimenting, like with any other kind of masturbation. But per safety, you want to be gradual with entry, only use toys you can sanitize or, when you can't, cover with a condom, and once more, lube, lube, lube.

Orgasm isn't about genitals, really: orgasm happens primarily in the brain and central nervous system, which is why people can reach orgasm sometimes without ANY kind of genital stimulation at all.

However, orgasm can feel different from different kinds of sex or stimulation, so you may find that orgasm you reach when masturbating with a focus on your anus feels different than it does with masturbation with your penis (or, if you call that anatomy something else, whatever you call it).

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Thank you for your answer Heather, I actually haven't taken a look round the website (don't know why I didn't just put it into the search engine) if you could post some links that would be great, thank you [Smile]
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No trouble (but using the search first for questions is always appreciated, for future reference). [Smile]

Here are some good places to start:
• Anal Sex Lowdown
• http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/meet_your_prostate
• With Pleasure: A View of Whole Sexual Anatomy for Every Body

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Thank you for those links, they're a great help [Smile]
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You got it! Anything else I can help with today?

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