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So I have no way to get any lube or anything of the sort and my boyfriend has this thing about spit, he hates seeing it, but I really wanna give him a hand job. He's circumcised so I wasn't sure if I can give him a handjob without lube... Can I?
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Can I ask why you have no way to get lube? There are no age restrictiosn on it and t is widely available at drugstores and pharmacies, or you could also order it online. So, it really should not be that difficult to get a hold of.

That said, whether or not you need lube is also largely up to your boyfriend. Maybe you can ask him if he uses any sort of lube when he masturbates, and if yes, what?

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Also, you might ask your boyfriend what he uses when he masturbates so you can use whatever that is. He might use a lubricant himself, or he might use something like a lotion or oil, either of which are also okay to use for handjobs.

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