Hey and sorry a if this is TMI but my bf and I tried anal sex the other day. It was a little bit uncomfortable at first but then it felt good. But after he came and pulled out his penis was a little... messy. It really grossed both of us out and ruined what was otherwise fun sex. So would an enema help next time? I tried to go poo before we had sex but I just had to pee.
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The short answer is that all sorts of bodily fluids are involved in sex of all kinds, from sweat to blood to sperm, and to a certain extent you have to learn to become comfortable with that. Traces of fecal matter (which is really all we're talking about here) shouldn't be a big deal if everyone involved is comfortable with bodies and the way they work.
To reduce the "mess", it's a good idea to use condoms. With anal sex, condoms are super important anyway, both to make things more comfortable for the receptive partner, but also because anal sex has a high risk for STI transmission.
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