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To go all the way with my Gf. We been together for 3 years, and the farthest we ever went , was just making out. On valentine day, we got plans on hooking up, but i'm nervous but excited about it. I'm not really sure what to fully expect i guess .
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Welcome to the boards. [Smile]

By all the way, what are we talking about here: intercourse?

I hear you saying you have agreed to have that kind of sex on valentine's Day. We can talk a little bit about why planning dates like that can be problematic -- and can often also make people feel MORE nervous, rather than less -- but how about first you talk to me about how you feel from the leap from making out to intercourse, rather than a more gradual "step," like making out to, say, mutual masturbation, or touching or seeing each others genitals or nude bodies?

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