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concernedteen867
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Hey, okay so I'm gonna go a little TMI and into detail here because I need to know the exact answer. so 2 days ago, I was at my boyfriend's house and we were yanno having a little fun. I was giving him a handjob while at the same time he was fingering me. within ten minutes or so, he came. I told him not to worry about where it got and to just cum when he was ready. so obviously it got all over my hand. About a minute-two minutes later, it was still a little wet I guess, but not like dripping of course; just a little wet and probably starting to get sticky. we were just sorta laying there and I took my hand which his cum got on and I rubbed it around the top of my clit area, not really going anywhere near my vaginal opening. there also wasnt any of his sperm on his hands. we both washed our hands afterwards, and then later on he fingered me again but that really has nothing to do with it. Is there a possibility that the sperm made its way from my clit area into my vag when it was already partially dry..? I'm just sorta freaking out, this would ruin my life as it would ruin anybody else's. I'm only 15 by the way. thanks!
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Take a look at this article, and per that you can assess your situation and it will reassure you that there is really no risk in the scenario you've discribed.

http://m.scarleteen.com/article/advice/can_i_get_pregnant_or_get_or_pass_on_an_sti_from_that

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concernedteen867
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Thank you. I read the charts and everything, but it said there is a high risk if semen comes in contact with the vulva. is my clitoris part of my vulva? if so, this would mean I'm at risk in that case scenario considering I rubbed his partially dry semen on my clit. would the semen be able to make its way into my vagina?
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That would only apply if he litterly just ejaculated into his or your hand and then immediately rubbed that handful of fresh ejaculate all over your vulva.

That would more be considered fluid sharing than manual sex, and as you've described nothing like this happened in your scenario.

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thank you so much!
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You're welcome [Smile]

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also, I read somewhere that the sperm can seep into the vagina even from the clitoris? is this possible?
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Robin Lee
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We're not talking here about someone ejaculating directly onto the clitoris, correct?

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correct
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When we talk about semen coming into contact with the vulva and a risk of pregnancy, we're talking about freshly ejaculated semen that lands directly onto the vulva. When there is indirect contact after a period of time has elapsed, pregnancy is very unlikely.

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even if that "period of time" was only about a minute? sorry for all the questions, I'm just worried..
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What you're describing is manual sex; that is, sex involving the hand and fingers. Can you take a look back at the article you were linked to above to see what it has to say about manual sex, please?

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