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ladybug18
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Hello!
I am new to this site, heard so much about it! and i would like to say thank you for helping each and every one of us teenagers, much appreciated! [Smile]

I would like to start off with my story, I am 17 and just 2 days ago my boyfriend and I were grinding/rubbing nude. I was on top of him and we were very into it then we stop and i noticed that he came next to my vagina, no he did not put it inside of me but i do remember the i touched the tip of his penis with my vagina but i think that was before he ' came ' he said he was POSITIVE he did not cum inside of me, and it was no where near my vagina.. i felt alot of it next to it.. but i'm still freaking out?!
We haven't had proper sex, he has never been inside of me but i'm just going a tad psycho over this [Confused]

can i be pregnant? really freaking out! i am supposed to be getting my period around the 14-17

thanks for your help [Smile] xxx

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Karybu
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Have a read through this first, please: http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/28/t/007116.html

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ladybug18
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alright thank you, i found my answer [Smile] x
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Glad to hear it! [Smile]

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One last thing!

'' here was not direct genital-to-genital sex or contact, but someone with a penis DID ejaculate inside a vagina or directly on or very near a vulva (like on or around the anus). '' POSSIBILITY you may be pregnant..

now i'm just not sure, i come from a country where if i am pregnant at this age ( 17 ) they will put me in jail. my family would basically abandon me. So i'm just really scared,
and they wouldn't give pregnancy tests to people who are 17 and /or birth control

so i'm pretty much stuck..
i really DOUBT i am pregnant but just to be safe, where should i get and how should i get these pregnancy tests from?

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Saffron Raymie
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It's too early for a test, but not to early for emergency contraception if you wanted to take that. Is that available in your country, at your age? If not, if you tell me where you are, or email that to me at raeATscarleteenDOTcom, I can have a look what we can do?

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Robin Lee
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Can you tell us what country you're in? That would help us help you figure out what you can do for testing.

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I'm from Kuwait
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thanks so much for helping me, it really means alot [Smile]
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Robin Lee
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Hi,

No problem. We'll do what we can.

When do you expect your next menstrual period?

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Around the 17nth...
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HI gucci,

I'm sorry to have taken so long to get back to you. Unfortunately, I'm still having trouble finding information on how to access pregnancy tests in Kuwait. I will keep looking. Do you know if home pregnancy tests are sold in stores there?

The sexual activity you described does pose a risk of pregnancy, but it is lower than, say, the risk associated with vaginal intercourse. AT this point, you'll need to wait until your menstrual period comes to know whether or not the sexual activity you described did lead to pregnancy.

IN the meantime, since it sounds like getting pregnant is something you do *not* want to do, would you like to talk about ways you can make sure the sexual activity you and your boyfriend engage in does not lead to pregnancy?

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Hey Robin Lee

It's alright [Smile] Yes, they are sold but i think you would have to be married in order to get them. I do not think they will give it to 17 year olds but when I'm out, I will try to do my best and buy a pregnancy test from the pharmacy here.

I am getting symptoms of my period e:g eating a lot, getting bloated. Those are things telling me that my period is near. But, I really do hope i get it!

I'll wait till my period comes which should be around next week, although I will be travelling around that time, so I will find internet access to get back to you then on other information!

Also, IF i am pregnant, i would like an abortion. My mother years ago told me at this age people should get an abortion and that it's really simple to do, and there's a pill you take? Is this true?

Yes of course, Especially since we have never used a condom for sexual activity..

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