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My boyfriend wants to perform oral sex on me our first time having sex , he's not a virgin and loves doing it. Do you think that oral sex and intercourse would be too much during my first time? or does it just add to the fun of sex?
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I'm not sure what you mean by "too much", but it's very common for people to engage in a variety of sex acts during one session of "sex". For example, a couple might start with making out, then to rubbing each other, then go to oral sex, then intercourse, then maybe some touching, etc. Most people don't decide to have sex and then go straight to intercourse without some other sex first... And for a receiving partner it could be painful doing it that way. Why don't your check out these articles for more help:

First Intercourse 101
Mouthing Off on Oral Sex
Ready or Not? The Scarleteen Sex Readiness Checklist

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