I have been with my girlfriend for 1 year and 1 mth and i recently found out that she cheated on me 3 times in the first 7 mths she hasnt cheated in the last 6 we are working really hard to make things work as we have the perfect relationship in everyway apart from what has happened, but the thing that i cant understand most is she has always told me and still persists that i am the best sex she has ever had i had no reason to doubt this before as she is also my best sex but i just cant get my head around why she strayed? what do you think the problem is?
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You know, I think this is a really great question to ask her. She's the only one who knows what's going on in her mind and why she does what she does. I will say, though, that there are many other reasons besides the, well, for lack of a better word, the quality of the sex that someone would decide to get involved with someone else while still in a relationship.
So, I'd suggest sitting down with her and telling her that you really want to know, that you really want to understand, why she did this. Then, just sit and listen.
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