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cutiepietori813
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So three days ago I was fooling around with a new friend, and since we just started hanging out I didnt want to have sex with him yet. With that being said, we dry humped for awhile and half through it, my lower pelvic area started to hurt but I basically ignored it. The next day I woke up and I was bleeding, not a lot, but enough to wear a liner. I'm not a virgin and it's still two weeks till I should be on my period, any thoughts as to why I'm still bleeding from dry humping?

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Dry humping tends to create a whole lot of friction, which is part of why it can feel good. But that's also part of why it can feel not-so-good sometimes, including when it results in abrasion.

Chances are that bleeding is about having rubbed part of your genitals raw, especially if you kept going when you started to feel pain. Have you taken a good look to see where the bleeding is coming from?

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Ya, there's no cut or anything that I can see, there's really only blood when I pee. Also, above my vulva a bit, if I press on this one spot it hurts. That's the spot that started to hurt when we were dry humping.

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So, you're bleeding when you urinate? Any pain with urination, or strain TO urinate? In other words, you feel like you have to go, but aren't urinating much when you do?

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Nope none of that. I'm peeing just fine.

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Okay. So, sounds like what's most likely is that you wound up with an abrasion. If there's not any more pain and the bleeding was light and going away likely nothing to worry about.

Just know for the future that if and when something hurts, you don't want to keep doing it, but change things up so that you're not feeling pain. With something like that, that could mean changing your position, putting a little lube on your vulva or switching to a different activity, for instance.

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Alright, thank you!!

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