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heartsoftheinnocent
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I was fingering my clit and to me, it felt really intense. So much so that my legs started to shake and I started to feel tense. Did I have one or was I pretty close?

Also, is it normal for the eyes to cross while having sex?

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Heather
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We can't ever tell someone if they experienced orgasm or not. That's just not something we can know.

But certainly, you are describing some things that make it seem very likely.

Orgasm is a neurological event: it's not about genitals, it's about our nervous systems. So, having our nervous system react is certainly normal, and that can include things like impact to the nerves of the eyes.

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when you have one, at least for me, being a guy, it was quite intense. to the point that i was overwhelmed. also, correct me if im wrong, but i think you kind of feel "done" after you climax. please correct me if im wrong and this doesnt apply to girls
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Heather
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Tobias: that's not really about guy/girl differences. Sometimes, when people orgasm, they feel "done." Sometimes they don't. And that varies from person-to-person and experience-to-experience. It's not really about gender or body parts.

As well, orgasm can range in intensity for people and tends to throughout life. It's very unusual for every orgasm to feel very intense for a person for the whole of their life. What's more common is for there to be a range: where sometimes it feels really intense, while other times it can be more, "That was nice, but whatever."

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