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Ariskola
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Anything more and it really hurts. Since there apparently aren't different sizes of vaginas, I'm curious as to why this is? I'm 17
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When you try to insert fingers, are you very relaxed and aroused? Using lots of extra lube? Going slowly and carefully?

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Johanna
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Ariskola
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I feel as if I'm pretty relaxed, but then, I tend to be tense without realizing it. I do get aroused, but I've never derived any pleasure from masterbation that really makes it worthwhile. So it may very well be an issue of relaxation
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Heather
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So, it sounds like you're saying that you feel aroused before you start masturbating (whether that only involves trying to insert fingers or something else), but then aren't staying aroused. Is that right?

If so, and you also aren't feelings relaxed, then it's pretty clear why you're experiencing pain. That said, there are plenty of folks who when they are aroused and relaxed may find that with manual sex only two fingers is what feels good to them. That alone isn't an indication that anything is wrong, just that different people enjoy different things, not all the same things, or the same things the same ways.

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