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Nea21
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Hi.i am 21 yrs old and i am a virgin.while masturbating i dont insert my finger in my vagina as i feel good just with stimulating Clitoris. and even if i try to insert my finger,it hardly goes about half inch inside my vagina.if i try to insert further in,something comes in between.so my question is,how i would be able to have sex if i cant even insert my finger more than half inch?and why i cant insert my finger inside? Please reply.

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First of all, I think you're not accounting for the fact that the angle of your arm changes things considerably. If your arm were not attached to your body, and so had a very different range and angle, this would likely be a very different story.

This is probably about angling, maybe about lubrication. It's also probably nothing you need to be worried about.

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Nea21
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But what is that something comes in between?
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Heather
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The vaginal canal tilts upward into your body. So, often, if you're using fingers, you're angling downward, and are probably just hitting the back wall of your vagina.

Something or someone coming from between your knees has a very different angle, one that's much more likely to result in something -- be it a penis, their fingers, a toy -- going with the angle of the vagina into the body, rather than against it.

Does that make sense?

If not, take a look at the thrid illustration on this page: Innies & Outies: The Vagina, Clitoris, Uterus and More. can you see how the vaginal canal angles up onto the body, and how, reaching from above, it'd be pretty tricky to go with that angle?

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Nea21
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Oh so that means there is nothing wrong with me na?
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Probably not. [Smile]

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