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lsabella
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This is my first post on here...
I've read through several Q&As and articles on this topic, but I still don't feel satisfied with the answers.

I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 and a half years, and vaginal sex has always been difficult for us. Rarely is he able to enter me all the way, because it's too painful/uncomfortable. Whenever he has been able to fit inside all the way, we're only able to have sex for a short time, because it starts to get uncomfortable for me. I'm comfortable with him, and we do a lot of foreplay (and most of it is him pleasuring me). I'll be relaxed and really aroused, and he'll even say I'm really wet (and we'll use lubricant), but he still won't be able to fit inside me. I have two ex-boyfriends who I had vaginal sex with before with no problems. My current boyfriend's penis is bigger than theirs, and I think he may be bigger than average. I know this isn't supposed to have importance, because the vagina is "elastic," but this has been such a reoccurring problem with us, I don't even know anymore. Help?

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orca
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Hi there Isabella. Have you taken a look at this article below? I know you said you're coming to sex aroused and with lubricant when necessary, but what about issues like infections and trauma?

From OW! to WOW! Demystifying Painful Intercourse

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lsabella
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Yeah, I saw that article. I was afraid I might be jumping to conclusions, so I wanted to get some feedback. Thank you so much!
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orca
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You're welcome! Did that answer your question though?

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Listen, strange women lyin' in ponds distributin' swords is no basis for a system of government. Supreme executive power derives from a mandate from the masses, not from some farcical aquatic ceremony.--Monty Python and the Holy Grail

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lsabella
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Yes, thank you. I'm going to try to get the courage to talk to my gynecologist about it next time I see her.
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