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hello everyone! [Smile]
so, i've discovered the wonderful world of masturbation and yes, its great. but i have some concerns.
while i don't insert anything into my vagina, i'm worried that constant masturbation will make me lose my virginity. can that happen? i rub and touch a lot, nothing more. i have inserted my finger once, but it was barely put in, about 4cm of my finger. nothing happened when i did that, i didn't bleed or anything.i haven't done that again.
i really want to know if that if i keep on masturbating, will i lose my virginity?
please help!

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Well, that all really depends on what you feel virginity is, and how you define what could make you lose it.

Virginity is a social concept, not a medical one. There really are no tests or exams that can be done to tell if you are still a virgin or not. For some people, any kind of sex (oral, manual, or intercourse) is losing your virginity. Some people may be ok with oral and manual sex, or even anal sex, and still consider themselves to be virgins.

Take a look at Magical Cups & Bloody Brides: Virginity in Context[/b]]this article. It may help you understand the concept a little more, and maybe help you further figure out how you want to define your virginity.

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