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grlnxtdr23
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This may or may not matter, but I am a virgin and have never came even close to having sexual intercourse. My problem is that I think something may be really wromg with me. Whenever I talk to other people about sex. They say that it is so good. But when i masterbate and try to put my finger inside of me, I don't get any pleasurable feelings. At all. One guy told me to try and put more than one finger inside and that just hurt! I didn't even get all the way inside it hurt so bad. When I was younger I had trouble inserting tampons, but i can now. I'm afraid because I watched this documentary once where a woman had to see a specialist becuase she didn't recieve pleasure from sex, and since I'm worried I might be like her. The only enojoyable thing for me is clitorial stimulation. Whats wrong with me, and why can't I feel the pleasure of vaginal stimulation?
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Heather
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Let me start you off with a few links so that we can have a discussion with some good foundational information, okay?

Take a read, then by all means, pop on back and we can talk about this together.

• From OW! to WOW! Demystifying Painful Intercourse
• Let's Get Metaphysical: The Etiquette of Entry
• Yield for Pleasure

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