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ScUbAbOy
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Hey, I have been reading in these forums, and i hear alot of people talking about having sexual relationships with some close friends. I am extremely sexually attracted to one of my friends, and we are very close, and i would like to have a purely sexual relationship with her. For those who asked why not emotionally? we tried it and it didnt work.

My question is how do you ask a girl for that type of relationship????

It might be worded wrong but can you help???

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Heather
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Thing is, this isn't that different from how to goes when we're talking about having any kind of sex with someone in a romantic relationship.

In other words, you're going to try and emotionally get a feel for if that person shares the same feelings with you, based on things they say and do: do you think she has those feelings or shares that interest? You said you had sex in the context of a different kind of relationship before: why didn't that work? How did she express feeling about that?

And since that time, have the two of you fostered another relationship together? How is that going?

These are all the kinds of things you're going to want to think about before voicing your own feelings and asking about hers.

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